Wednesday, September 17, 2008

In Kiev

We cannot express how we've seen God's hand in our trip thus far. Our trip to Kiev was amazingly smooth, the flights were great and our girls did incredibly well. We spent our first full day here sleeping in (Madison pulled the record with sleeping about 16 hours!), playing together, doing schoolwork, going to the grocery store, meeting with Dr. Yuri, a Ukrainian doctor to review medical diagnosis and eating at none other than McDonalds. I'd like to think we'd get a little more adventurous with the food, but I'm not sure!

Kiev in many ways is like a European New York City. We've enjoyed our time walking about the city, taking photos (hope to post later) and taking the girls to the park. Our apartment in Kiev is nice and simple . . . just what we need. We were pleased to find that it has a washing machine and internet.

Our translator, Alla is a mover and shaker. The woman knows what she's doing and gets the job done. We feel that we are truly able to trust her and her judgment; and she seems to have a lot of influence in the right places.

We are all doing really well and enjoying our trip thus far. We have all eased into this temporary new way of life smoothly and are enjoying our time together. Madison and Mallory are really having a good time and doing a great job of listening and obeying. We are thrilled that they are on this trip with us and believe they are learning a lot in the process. Up to this point, things have been smoother than we had anticipated with everything.

AND NOW, about our appointment at the SDA. We had a very successful appointment this morning. We along with another Italian family had the first two 9am appointments of the day. We had specifically prayed that the Lord would guide which files would be shown to us and that it would be very clear as to who we should go meet. After telling the SDA staff person a little about our family and showing a photo album to her, we were shown a file of a boy about 4 years old with cleft palate. He aleady had one surgery, but would need further surgery. He was adorable and we were interested in considering him. Our translator quietly told us that his orphanage is in a region that is very complex and discouraged us from going there. We were then shown a file of a little boy who is five, turning six next month. He has nothing in his file in the way of diagnosis except a type of delay which is typical of children in orphanages and no surprise to us. His file also said he has issues with his adonoids (no big deal). We were so happy to be shown his file! He has an older brother who was adopted by a Ukrainian family. The other files then shown to us were of children who were either very sick or of sibling groups beyond our age range. Needless to say, we are pumped up about meeting this dear boy! We will travel on Friday to the Crimea region (very southern part of Ukraine) to Simferopol to meet him at his orphanage. We will travel by plane since the train ride is about 12 hours, although we might end up traveling back to Ukraine by train just because of the expense.

We asked the Lord for clarification as to who we should visit and we thank Him for making it crystal clear that we should meet this five year old boy. We had no question in our appointment as to whether we should do this or do that - His will for us at this leg of the journey is very clear to us and we just put one foot in front of the other and take the next good step that He's leading us to take. We hope and pray for a good meeting with him on Friday and then we'll go from there. If that goes well, we will have Dr. Yuri exam and assess him for his input.

Lastly, a few months back we felt lead to have an addendum done to our homestudy that changed our age range from 0-4 years old to 0-6 years old. How thankful we are that this was done. If we end up adopting this boy, he falls right in our updated age range and the addendum saves us a lot of hassle and headache on our end over in Ukraine.

Thanks to all for your support and prayers along the way. We appreciate and love you all! Thanks too for your emails and comments to our blog - we are able to read them - and they make the world seem much smaller.

14 comments:

Julie said...

How exciting! You will be in my prayers as you go meet the little boy in Simferopol. We adopted our youngest daughter from there. Sounds like you are having a good time in Kyiv! Can't wait to read more :)
Good Luck and God Bless,
Julie

Unknown said...

Hello Everyone! What good news!

Madison, Last night when we were tucking Preciouse into bed, she started crying and said something to the effect that she you hadn't been at school and she thought you weren't coming back! I explained to here that you were over in another country with you mommy, daddy and Mallory and were going to be getting a brother or sister (or more!). I can't wait to show her your picture and let here know about the little boy you are going to meet on Friday. We are and will be praying for you, your mommy and daddy and Mallory! I'm sure Preciouse would send you all Hugs if she were awake!

Chellie

ANP1128 said...

We were so glad to read your update. How exciting that you are having the opportunity to meet this precious little boy. May God continue to show you the way. We will be anxious to read your updates. Know you as well as the girls continue to be in our prayers.
Much love,
Audra and Wally

Kathy and Matt said...

It's great to read your post and I'm thrilled to hear how well your appointment went. Isn't God so good? It's wonderful that you felt such clarity.

Can't wait to read your next posts as you meet the little boy.

the Sauders said...

What exciting news! We're praying!!! I simply cannt say anything better than that!

Michael Redman said...

Hi Folks,
It was a pleasure meeting you at the SDA yesterday. After we talked to you we received our referral and headed for the train station - 15 hours later we arrived in Melitopal. Tired and without a place to stay. 6 hrs later we have a place to stay and food in our stomach. Tomorrow morning we will meet Julie for the first time.

Good luck on your voyage and you can follow ours at www.redmanadoption.blogspot.com

God bless,
Michael and Paula

Unknown said...

That's exciting news!! We will continue to keep your journey in prayer, and look forward to your next post. Also, glad to hear the girls are doing so well:)

Love,
Jim & Jen

Lori and Family said...

I am so excited for you all. What a blessed journey! I cannot wait to hear every last adventure. We are praying for you daily!!
Lori Smith and Family

Anonymous said...

Greetings!

We are so happy to hear that things have gone so smoothly. We will continue to pray for you guys as you travel to meet this little boy. We will pray that God will continue to give you absolute clarity and peace throughout the rest of this process. We love you guys and we can't wait to welcome you all home!

The Crist's

Amy said...

Congratulations on a successful appointment!

My thoughts are with you on a safe journey down to Simferopol!

Best wishes!

Amy

Unknown said...

We are so excited for you and are thinking about you every day since you began your trip.
May God continue to lead your steps...we're praying for you..as well as your new child(s)....
Hugs to Mallory and Madison!
Tim, Linda, Lexi, Luke, Tori and Jake

Naomi and Burk Hulst said...

Howdy, we are so thrilled to hear how God is working on your exciting journey. We all miss you in Lancaster and can't wait to have you return and to meet your new addition. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you in your journey. Have fun exploring the food options and wonder how many Big Mac's you have eaten so far?

With love to all,
Naomi, Burk, Harrison, and Haley

Staci and Damon said...

Congratulations! Praying your meeting with the little boy went well!!
Staci

Crystal said...

Hi Kelly and Family,
Just wanted to let you know I am keeping in touch with your blog as you are gone. Annette gave me the info.... It is very encouraging to hear your story thus far. I am so excited to hear how God is working in all this. We will be praying for you.